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Showing posts with label shame. Show all posts
Showing posts with label shame. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

228.Faults to be Eliminated

Beware of the following faults and whenever you see them in yourself, work hard to eliminate them.
1. Recklessness which leads to Destruction.
2. Cowardice which leads to Capture.
3. A hasty Temper that can be provoked leading to Defeat and Slavery.
4. A delicacy of Honour which is sensitive to Shame.
5. Over-solicitude for others exposing you to worry and trouble.(Boundary issue).

Mark these well if you are to avoid destruction of your state (self).

Sunday, April 4, 2010

46. Guilt

Guilt is not learning from the past. It is allowing yourself to be immobilised in the the present by something that took place in the past. The fruits of guilt are :
1. Immobilising panic
2. Sleeplessness
3. Fear
4. Introversion
5. Shame
6. Loss of Self-esteem
7. Lack of Initiative

There are more negative effects associated with guilt such as long-term psychiatric damage, but it is rnough to know for now that it is to be avoided as much as possible.

Guilt is a favourite weapon of the weak, used to manipulate others. Being a victim of guilt-manipulation leads to the abandonment of your inner voice in favour of the wishes of the manipulator. Avoid this trap.