214. Victory !

Always celebrate a win and forget your losses. Start and maintain a Victory Log. Record in it all your achievements both minor and major. Regularly examine it to re-affirm your victories.

133. Winning the Right Way

Win, truly win through integrity (even if it means losing the race) not through exaggeration or bluff. Exaggeration is sham.

31. On Fighting Battles

A favourite expression of your Grandfather's, Dominic Timothy Mulvey, was "Never fight a battle you can't win." This implies finding out first whether you can win or not. Unfortunately that is not always possible and some battles have to be fought regardless.It is wise however to avoid battles that can't be won or those that give you a Pyrrhic victory. Fighting for justice or for your own corner is terrific but useless fighting - where you end up as the victim - is a waste of time and usually injurs you and sets you back. How do you know when you have lost a fight ? You have lost when you have been injured more than the other guy or when you have lost something precious to the other guy either as a prize or as something destroyed forever by the enemy.